“We don’t decide when we are going to die. But we can decide how we are going to live. Ask yourself. Is this the life you want to live? Is this the person you want to love?… Decide. Breathe in, breathe out, and decide…” – Richard Webber, Grey’s Anatomy –
We do not have control of time..
Of our own time…
But we can choose what to do with our time..
The person we want to be with..
The things that matters..
Those that will make us happy..
Those that will keep our heart beating..
To live those dreams..
To smile those joyfulness..
To cry those tears..
Cause at the end of the day..
It doesn’t matter how much happiness we give to others.. They might forget..
It doesn’t matter how much time we spend with others… They might not remember..
It doesn’t matter how much sacrifices we make for the joy of others.. They might take it for granted..
But at the end of the day.. It matters how much happiness we give to ourself..
How much we listen to our own needs, our own feeling, our own longing for peacefulness..
Cause at the end of the day, when we do things that makes us happy, then all of our actions and choices will come from the place of happiness.. Including those that we choose to give and sacrifice for others..
To live our life for us, not for others..
To be happy for us, and then for others..
To believe in our own dreams, and to live it, without having to live other people’s dreams..
And trust deeply..
That what we need, will always be given..
Including our dreams..
Helsinki, 1 September 2017